
This time of year, as I’m sure is the case with many people, I start thinking a lot about my family. Brought about by the holidays—in conjunction with my birthday, as well as the birthday of my father—this is when I become most homesick, nostalgic and prone to long trips down memory lane. Of course, such excursions often gloss over the nightmarish reality of dealing with relatives, which for many is a universal unpleasantness brought about by the holidays. Inevitably, I find myself in conversations with other people, talking about their families, often comparing horror stories and trying to one-up each other in tales of dysfunction and discord, arguing to see who has a crazier family and the more traumatic upbringing. These conversations are usually fun for a while, but often take an uncomfortable turn when I say, “There’s no law that says you have to spend time with the people you’re related to. In fact, I stopped spending the holidays with my extended family years ago.” (more…)
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